1 . It is now about successful togetherness. a . Successful togetherness can be described by the attributes life-serving, organic and self- organized. b . Organic is a community system when it includes the surrounding systems in mindfulness. c . In order to know whether togetherness is adequately or at least sufficiently successful, it must be adequately or at least sufficiently consciously experienced and mindfully lived. d . Without the will to a new quality of togetherness, the will to change the existing togetherness is missing. e . There are two basic orientations in togetherness, neither of which should be pursued unilaterally: firstly, the orientation towards individual needs and secondly, the jointly shared orientation towards meaning. f . Individuals experience differences and tensions in togetherness. g . Some tensions can be used as an impetus for creative design. h . In some states of tension empathic understanding helps. 2 . A field of potential is formed between conscious individuals in community. In mutual activities they work out of the potential field like a meta-organism. a . In the harmony of essence forces (yin - to receive, to surrender and to let arise) and formative forces (yang - to understand, to plan and to act) a metaorganism can arise from a group of people. b . Through the harmony of the essence forces (yin) with the shaping forces (yang), the culture becomes more caring and efficient. c . The development of consciousness of individuals is promoted in the metaorganism. d . The potential of individuals increases through this interconnectedness. e . People become more self-similar in the metaorganism and feel more connected to themselves. f . Individual goals are easier to achieve in the metaorganism. g . The call to this change is inherent in the human being. 3 . General insights into successful community can be practically implemented in concrete togetherness. a . Stories about a better community usually arouse more interest than abstract considerations. b . A metaorganism usually aligns itself better with utopian than with dystrophic narratives. c . Success cannot be derived from derailments. d . A community networked into a metaorganism can better deal with problems, dramas and ambiguities. e . With e.g. the classical Nonviolent Communication and with GFK-plus practical methods for the simple implementation are available.