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What ist
NVC-plus
NVC-plus
is
the
methodological
core
of
"The
team
is
the
boss"
and
makes
it
easy
for
people
to
come
together
in
a
productive
synergy.
With
the
help
of
this
method,
people
work
together
as
equals
and
organize
themselves
into
teams
and
sub-teams.
The
special
thing
about
NVC-plus
is
that
no
new
team
or
work
structure
is
proposed.
Instead,
NVC-plus
supports
teams
in
finding
a
suitable
structure
themselves.
NVC-plus
activates
people's
inner
strengths
and
builds
on
the
natural
principles
of
togetherness.
That
is
why
the
application
feels
less
technical
and
is
more
about discovery than learning.
The parameters of NVC-plus
- self-managing teams
- organic cooperation
- life-serving communities
- encounters at eye level
The roots of NVC-plus
NVC-plus
has
a
connection
to
classic
non-violent
communication
(NVC)
according
to
Dr.
Marshall
Rosenberg.
Rosenberg
developed
four
steps
with
which
people
can
establish
a
good
personal
connection
beyond
all
ideas,
opinions
and
ideologies.
This
method
is
very
effective
in
personal
disagreements
and
conflicts
and
has
therefore
spread
worldwide.
It
is
used
in
many
professional
contexts.
But
what
classic
NVC
lacked
until
now
was
a
second
process
that
could
be used to organize and optimize systems of joint cooperation "non-violently".
The development of NVC-plus
NVC-plus
was
developed
in
Germany
by
a
communication
developer
(Gabriel
Fritsch)
in
collaboration
with
three
NVC
trainers.
It
was
clear
to
them
from
the
outset
that
in
an
increasingly
complex
and
at
the
same
time
increasingly
open
world,
communities
and
teams
increasingly
want
to
get
by
without
a
real
"boss"
and
therefore
need
to
manage
themselves.
But
how?
Teams
need
a
simple
method
with
which
they
can
integrate
and
organize
the
different
individual
potentials and aspirations - without losing sight of the goal of a project or a company.
The components of NVC-plus
The
central
element
of
NVC-plus
is
the
four-step
circle.
It
enables
the
process
to
succeed
step
by
step
and
sustainably
in
the
team
or
group.
There
are
also
various
tools
and
some
additional
elements for self-management that can be incorporated as required.
What for
NVC-plus
If
you
ask
yourself
what
NVC-plus
is
actually
good
for,
then
there
is
an
answer
from
the
individual
perspective
and
an
answer
from
the
community
perspective
(partnership,
team,
company, community).
The why for the individual
Every
organized
get-together
has
rules.
You
should
follow
them,
be
nice
and,
above
all,
not
be
a
nuisance.
From
school,
through
military
service
and
vocational
training,
to
the
workplace
and
retirement
home
-
everywhere
you
go,
you
are
expected
to
play
along
functionally.
This
trains
a
person
in
the
art
of
obedience
and
adaptation.
Our
energy
is
used
for
projects
that
are
not
ours
and
often
even
run
counter
to
our
interests.
The
more
conscious
we
become,
the
less
we
want
to
go along with this.
Human
beings
are
a
source
of
energy,
awareness,
sensitivity,
inspiration,
vitality,
creativity
and
spirituality.
All
of
this
can
only
flow
into
processes
from
the
human
side
and
from
nowhere
else.
Up
to
now,
however,
it
has
mainly
been
energy
that
has
been
accepted
and
purchased
from
this
source.
This
has
an
advantage
for
systems,
because
collaboration
can
be
controlled
from
a
central
location
by
specifying
a
program
that
is
then
only
carried
out
by
others.
However,
the
untapped
potential
of
employees
creates
tensions,
both
in
people
and
in
systems.
The
time
seems
to
have
come
to
live
out
one's
own
qualities
and
potential.
However,
if
everyone
only
acts
individually
and
does
not
come
together
in
their
work,
it
will
only
become
increasingly
lonely
and
chaotic.
With
NVC-plus,
people
can
consciously
intertwine
their
individual
potentials
and use them optimally in a self-organized way within the framework of projects.
The why for teams, companies and communities
In
conventional
systems,
all
individuals
are
organized
into
collective
structures.
This
is
referred
to
as
"the
school
class",
"the
army"
or
"the
department".
Conventions,
rules
and
sanctions
are
the
glue
that
holds
everything
together.
Guilt,
shame,
indignation
and
depression
become
part
of
the
system
climate.
The
quality
of
communication,
trust
and
transparency
decline.
Where
have
all
the
lively
and
exciting
people
gone
in
this
gray
uniformity?
Collectives
are
rarely
more
intelligent
than
their
smartest
member
and
their
momentum
is
difficult
to
control.
The
unused
potential
of
people
acts
as
inertia,
friction
and
resistance.
Strange
strategies
and
ideologies
emerge that do not do justice to people and do not promote humanity.
The
NVC-plus
process
awakens
and
directs
individual
forces.
Powerful
networks
replace
faceless
collective
structures.
With
NVC-plus,
satisfied,
interactively
intelligent
and
self-directed
teams
are
formed.
For
the
company,
this
means
more
creativity,
commitment,
performance
and
sustainability in uncertain times.
With whom NVC-plus
If
some
people
are
not
able
to
do
this,
they
may
first
need
to
do
some
fundamental
personal
awareness
work.
Coaching
and
seminars
can
support
them
in
this.NVC-plus
is
intended
for
all
people
who
want
to
organize
themselves
independently
and
on
an
equal
footing
with
others.
In
this
respect,
the
method
is
kept
as
simple
as
possible.
You
could
say:
anyone
who
can
learn
how
to
drive
a
car
can
also
learn
NVC-plus.
The
real
challenge
is
to
switch
from
the
previous
way
of
working
together
to
the
NVC-plus
mode.
This
requires
flexibility,
curiosity
and
trust.
You
have
to
try
out
new
things
openly
in
order
to
be
able
to
assess
them
realistically
and
apply
them
effectively.
This
is
not
easy
for
everyone.
NVC-plus
offers
an
elegant
change
strategy
for
the
sensitive transition phase.
Being a pioneer - who starts?
There
are
people
in
a
community
or
institution
who
find
it
easier
to
embrace
change.
They
are
pioneers
at
heart.
They
like
to
break
new
ground.
Others,
on
the
other
hand,
have
their
backs
to
the
wall
in
their
life
situation
and
therefore
choose
change.
They
try
out
NVC-plus,
for
example,
to
save
a
relationship
or
stabilize
a
project,
a
team
or
even
an
entire
company.
However,
those
who
are
unhappy
with
the
way
they
are
working
together
and
suspect
at
first
contact
that
NVC-
plus
can
provide
real
answers
for
them
have
the
easiest
time.
These
people
have
a
hunger
for
a
good common ground. If they see an opportunity, they will go straight away.
Change and awareness
NVC-plus
presents
our
consciousness
with
a
challenge.
Where
we
as
humans
are
actually
used
to
relying
on
the
visible,
predictable
and
calculable,
with
NVC-plus
we
develop
an
interactive
sensitivity.
And
in
our
highly
functional
culture,
which
has
evolved
from
a
male-dominated
world,
thoughts
are
usually
more
familiar
to
us
than
feelings.
Many
know
little
about
their
inner
life,
their
needs
and
their
real
goals.
For
a
self-directed
mode,
however,
we
need
a
good
or
at
least
sufficient
connection
to
ourselves
and
to
the
other
team
members.
In
the
beginning,
it's
like
training
muscles
after
the
plaster
cast
has
been
removed.
It
takes
some
time
for
them
to
work
properly
again
and
feel
comfortable.
You
shouldn't
let
this
irritate
you.
The
"social
muscles"
are
present in us humans and with the first successes we easily get over the initial threshold.
NVC-plus is not a form of self-awareness or therapy.
NVC-plus
is
of
course
free
of
ideology
and
designed
to
help
people
organize
their
activities
in
an
easy
and
contemporary
way.
It
is
therefore
not
about
self-optimization
or
simply
getting
rid
of
problems
or
being
passively
happy
together.
There
are
certainly
other
methods
for
that.
NVC-
plus is for people who want to coordinate their activities optimally with each other.
Power vs. dominance
NVC-plus
is
for
people
who
like
to
live
their
positive
and
natural
power
without
wanting
to
live
it
out
in
the
form
of
dominance.
The
power
of
the
individual
is
turned
forward
and
intertwined
into
a
larger
team
force
in
order
to
become
interactively
and
intelligently
effective.
This
is
achieved
with
NVC-plus.
On
the
other
hand,
those
who
prefer
to
do
their
own
thing
will
hardly
look
for
a
central
place
in
a
self-organized
team
-
that
is
also
self-management.
Everyone
will
find
their
own
good
place
in
the
team
or
in
relation
to
the
team
if
they
can
engage
in
mediating
communication. NVC-plus can strengthen their understanding of this.
Starting with
NVC-plus
NVC-plus
is
best
started
in
direct
contact
with
two
or
three
people
or
in
a
small,
intimate
circle.
You
can
start
with
your
partner
or
family
or
find
your
own
NVC-plus
practice
partner.
It's
easy
to
learn
the
first
steps,
experience
the
benefits
and
get
hooked.
Together,
you
not
only
meet
the
other
person,
but
also
yourself.
In
the
new
NVC-plus
mode,
the
togetherness
is
different
and
this
also
changes
your
own
self-image
and
sense
of
self.
Next
comes
the
second
step:
NVC-plus
in
the
team,
in
the
company
or
in
even
larger
contexts.
The
principle
is
always
the
same.
Once
you
have understood it, it is easy to do.
The first steps
There
are
many
ways
to
get
started
with
NVC-plus.
You
can
view
information
material
on
the
website
(www.NVC-plus.net),
attend
a
video
conference,
attend
an
event
or
a
training
group
or
get
started
with
the
NVC-plus
book.
If
there
is
not
yet
a
practice
group
in
your
area,
you
can
set
one
up.
There
you
can
exchange
ideas
with
others
and
experiment
together.
In
the
NVC-plus
app
and
the
online
courses,
you
can
find
some
introductory
exercises.
You
can
talk
to
the
NVC-
plus hotspots on the phone, get advice or invite them.
You
start
with
a
small
project,
an
activity
or
a
day
that
you
would
like
to
actively
organize
together
with
NVC-plus.
If
that
goes
well,
you
start
the
next
project.
Soon
the
basics
become
more
familiar
and
NVC-plus
takes
up
more
and
more
space
in
your
life.
Together,
you
dare
to
tackle
tasks
that
previously
seemed
too
difficult.
Life
is
transformed.
If
difficulties
arise
from
time
to
time,
you
can
get
support.
Often
it's
just
down
to
little
things
that
are
easier
to
recognize
from
the outside.
The start of NVC-plus in companies
In
companies
and
communities,
a
confidence-inspiring
strategy
is
required
for
the
introduction
of
NVC-plus.
As
a
start,
it
would
be
possible
to
invite
an
NVC-plus
coach
for
a
presentation
or
workshop.
Afterwards,
the
employees
who
spontaneously
accept
NVC-plus
could
try
out
NVC-
plus
in
their
private
environment
over
the
next
few
weeks
(see
above).
The
company
can
provide
them
with
the
advanced
online
course
modules
and
perhaps
also
one
or
two
coaching
sessions.
This
creates
a
win-win
situation.
The
first
steps
are
taken
outside
of
working
hours
in
a
trusting
environment.
This
strengthens
the
employees
and
their
private
environment.
For
their
part,
they
bring their confidence and new skills to the work teams.
The
next
step
is
to
start
a
smaller
project
with
NVC-plus,
using
people
who
already
have
some
prior
knowledge.
The
NVC-plus
coach
accompanies
the
first
steps
and
continues
to
be
available
as
a
contact
person.
In
this
way,
more
and
more
experience
and
expertise
is
accumulated and the NVC-plus mode is gradually extended to the rest of the company.
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