NVC-plus
is
a
method
that
makes
it
easy
for
people
to
come
into
productive
synergy
with
each
other.
With
the
help
of
this
method,
people
work
together
at
eye
level,
organizing
themselves
into
teams
and
sub-teams.
What
makes
NVC-plus
special
is
that
it
does
not
propose
a
new
team
or
work
structure.
Rather,
NVC-plus
supports
teams
in
finding
a
suitable
structure
themselves.
NVC-plus
activates
the
inner
forces
of
people
and
links
to
the
natural
principles
of
togetherness.
Therefore,
the
application
feels
less
technical
and
is
more
discovered
than
learned.
The parameters of NVC-plus
- self-controlling teams
- organic togetherness
- life-serving communities
- encounters at eye level
The roots of NVC-plus
NVC-plus
has
a
connection
to
the
classical
Nonviolent
Communication
(NVC)
according
to
Dr.
Marshall
Rosenberg.
Rosenberg
has
developed
four
steps
with
which
people
come
into
a
good
personal
connection,
beyond
all
ideas,
opinions
and
ideologies.
This
method
is
very
effective
in
personal
disagreements
and
conflicts
and
has
therefore
spread
worldwide.
It
is
used
in
many
professional
contexts.
But
what
classical
NVC
lacked
until
now
was
a
second
process
for
organizing
and
optimizing
systems of joint cooperation in a "non-violent" way.
The development of NVC-plus
NVC-plus
was
developed
in
Germany
by
three
NVC
trainers
and
a
communication
developer.
It
was
clear
to
them
from
the
beginning
that
in
an
increasingly
complex
and
at
the
same
time
increasingly
open
world,
communities
and
teams
increasingly
want
to
get
along
without
a
real
"boss"
and
therefore
need
to
manage
themselves.
But
how?
Teams
need
a
simple
method
to
integrate
and
organize
the
different
individual
potentials
and
aspirations
-
without
losing
sight
of
the
goal
of
a
project
or
an
enterprise.
The components of NVC-plus
The
central
element
of
NVC-plus
is
the
four-step
circle.
With
it,
the
process
in
the
team
or
group
can
succeed
step
by
step
and
sustainably.
In
addition,
there
are
various
tools
and
some
additional
elements
for
self-management
that
can
be
incorporated
as
needed.
If
you
ask
yourself
what
NVC-plus
is
actually
good
for,
there
is
an
answer
from
the
individual
perspective
and
an
answer
from
the
community
perspective
(partnership,
team,
company,
community).
The why for the individual
Every
organized
community
has
rules.
You
are
supposed
to
follow
them,
be
nice,
and
most
importantly,
not
be
disruptive.
From
school,
to
military
service,
to
professional
training,
to
the
workplace,
to
the
retirement
home
-
everywhere
you
are
asked
to
functionally
participate.
This
trains
a
person
in
the
art
of
obedience
and
conformity.
Our
power
is
used
for
projects
that
are
not
ours
and
often
even
run
counter
to
our
interests.
The
more
aware
we
become,
the
less
we
want
to
go
along
with it.
The
human
being
is
a
source
of
drive,
awareness,
sense,
inspiration,
vitality,
creativity
and
also
spirituality.
All
this
can
only
flow
into
processes
from
the
side
of
people
and
from
nowhere
else.
But
up
to
now
people
have
accepted
and
bought
mainly
the
drive
from
this
source.
This
has
an
advantage
for
systems,
because
cooperation
can
be
controlled
from
a
central
location
by
specifying
a
program,
which
is
then
only
carried
out
by
others.
But
the
unused
potential
of
employees
creates
tensions,
both
in
people
and
in
systems.
The
time
seems
to
have
come
to
live
out
one's
own
qualities
and
potential.
However,
if
everyone
only
acts
individually
and
does
not
find
each
other
in
their
work,
it
will
only
become
more
and
more
lonely
and
chaotic.
With
NVC-plus,
people
can
consciously
intertwine
their
individual
potentials
and
use
them
optimally
in
a
self-organized
way
within
the
framework of projects.
The
why
for
teams,
companies
and
communities
In
conventional
systems,
all
individuals
fit
into
collective
structures.
One
then
speaks
of
"the
school
class",
"the
army"
or
"the
department".
Conventions,
rules
and
sanctions
are
the
cement
that
holds
everything
together.
Guilt,
shame,
indignation
and
depression
become
the
system
climate.
The
quality
of
communication,
trust
and
transparency
decline.
Where
have
all
the
lively
and
exciting
people
gone
in
this
gray
uniformity?
Collectives
are
seldom
more
intelligent
than
their
smartest
member
and
their
momentum
is
difficult
to
control.
The
unused
potential
of
people
acts
as
inertia,
friction
and
resistance.
Strange
strategies
and
ideologies
emerge
that
do
not
do
justice
to
people, nor do they promote humanity.
The
NVC-plus
process
awakens
and
directs
individual
forces.
Powerful
networks
replace
the
faceless
collective
structures.
With
NVC-plus,
satisfied,
interactively
intelligent
and
self-directing
teams
are
formed.
For
the
company,
this
means
more
creativity,
commitment,
performance
and
sustainability in uncertain times.
NVC-plus
is
best
started
in
direct
togetherness
in
pairs
or
threes
or
in
a
small
intimate
circle.
You
can
start
in
a
partnership
or
family
or
find
your
own
NVC-plus
practice
partner.
It
is
easy
to
learn
the
first
steps,
to
experience
the
benefits
and
to
be
inspired.
In
the
togetherness
one
meets
not
only
the
other
person,
but
also
oneself.
In
the
new
NVC-plus
mode,
the
togetherness
is
different
and
thus
one's
own
self-image
and
sense
of
self
changes.
Next
comes
the
second
step:
NVC-plus
in
the
team,
in
the
company
or
in
even
larger
contexts.
The
principle
is
always
the
same.
Once
you
have
understood
it,
it
is
easy to do.
The first steps
There
are
many
ways
to
get
started
with
NVC-plus.
You
can
start
with
the
free
online
course
"Easy-
Start",
look
at
information
material
on
the
website
(www.gfk-plus.net),
attend
a
video
conference,
visit
an
event
or
a
practice
group,
or
get
started
with
the
NVC-plus
book.
If
there
is
not
yet
a
practice
group
in
your
area,
you
can
start
one.
There
you
can
exchange
ideas
with
others
and
experiment
together.
In
the
NVC-plus
app
and
the
online
courses,
you
can
find
some
introductory
exercises.
One
can
make
phone
calls
to
NVC-plus
hotspots,
get
advice or invite them.
You
start
with
a
small
project,
an
action
or
a
day
that
you
want
to
actively
create
together
with
NVC-
plus.
If
that
goes
well,
you
start
the
next
project.
Soon
the
basics
become
more
familiar
and
NVC-plus
gets
more
and
more
space
in
your
life.
Together
you
dare
to
tackle
tasks
that
previously
seemed
too
difficult.
Life
transforms.
If
difficulties
arise
from
time
to
time,
support
can
be
sought.
Often
it
is
only
due
to
small
things
that
are
easier
to
recognize
from
the outside.
The start of NVC-plus in companies
In
companies
and
communities,
a
confidence-
inspiring
strategy
for
the
introduction
of
NVC-plus
is
necessary.
As
a
start,
it
would
be
possible
to
invite
an
NVC-plus
coach
for
a
presentation
or
workshop.
After
that,
employees
who
spontaneously
agree
with
NVC-plus
could
spend
the
next
few
weeks
testing
NVC-plus
in
their
private
environment
(see
above).
For
this
purpose,
the
company
can
provide
them
with
the
continuing
online
course
modules
and
perhaps
also
a
coaching
session
or
two.
This
creates
a
win-win
situation.
The
first
steps
are
taken
outside
working
hours
in
a
trusting
environment.
This
strengthens
the
employees
and
their
private
environment.
For
their
part,
they
carry
their
confidence
and
new
competence
into
the
work
teams.
The
next
step
is
to
start
a
smaller
project
with
NVC-
plus,
drawing
on
the
people
who
already
have
some
prior
knowledge.
The
NVC-plus
coach
accompanies
the
first
steps
and
continues
to
be
available
as
a
contact
person.
In
this
way,
more
and
more
experience
and
competence
is
accumulated
and
gradually
the
NVC-plus
mode
is
extended
to
the
rest
of the company.
NVC-plus
is
intended
for
all
people
who
want
to
organize
themselves
with
others
at
eye
level
and
independently.
In
this
respect,
the
method
is
also
kept
as
simple
as
possible.
You
could
say:
If
you
can
learn
how
to
drive
a
car,
you
can
learn
NVC-plus.
The
real
challenge
is
to
switch
from
the
previous
way
of
working
together
to
the
NVC-plus
mode.
This
requires
flexibility,
curiosity
and
trust.
You
have
to
try
out
new
things
openly
in
order
to
be
able
to
assess
them
realistically
and
apply
them
effectively.
This
is
not
easy
for
everyone.
NVC-plus
offers
an
elegant
change strategy for the sensitive transition phase.
Being a pioneer - who starts?
In
a
community
or
institution,
there
are
people
who
can
more
easily
embrace
change.
They
are
pioneers
at
heart.
They
like
to
break
new
ground.
Others
have
their
backs
to
the
wall
in
their
life
situation
and
therefore
choose
change.
They
try
NVC-plus,
for
example,
to
save
a
relationship
or
to
stabilize
a
project,
a
team
or
even
an
entire
company.
But
the
easiest
ones
are
those
who
are
unhappy
with
the
way
they
are
with
each
other
and
suspect
in
the
first
contact
that
NVC-plus
can
provide
real
answers
for
them.
In
these
people
there
is
a
hunger
for
a
good
common
ground.
If
they
see
an
opportunity,
they
will
immediately go for it.
Change and Consciousness
NVC-plus
challenges
our
consciousness.
Where
we
as
humans
are
actually
used
to
relying
on
the
visible,
predictable
and
predictable,
with
NVC-plus
we
develop
an
interactive
sensitivity.
And
in
our
very
functionally
oriented
culture
that
has
evolved
from
a
male-dominated
world,
we
are
usually
more
familiar
with
thoughts
than
feelings.
Many
know
little
about
their
inner
life,
their
needs
and
their
real
goals.
However,
for
a
self-directing
mode,
we
need
a
good
or
at
least
sufficient
relationship
with
ourselves
and
with
the
other
team
members.
In
the
beginning,
it's
like
exercising
muscles
after
the
cast
has
come
off.
It
takes
some
time
before
they
start
working
properly
again
and
feel
comfortable
doing
so.
You
can't
let
that
bother
you.
The
"social
muscles"
are
present
in
us
humans
and
with
the
first
successes
we
easily
get
over the initial threshold.
NVC-plus
is
not
a
form
of
self-awareness
or
therapy.
NVC-plus
is,
of
course,
ideology-free
and
designed
to
help
people
organize
their
activities
in
an
easy
and
timely
manner.
So
it
is
not
about
self-optimization
or
just
getting
rid
of
problems
or
being
passively
happy
with
each
other.
There
are
certainly
other
methods
for
that.
NVC-plus
is
for
people
who
want
to
coordinate
their
activities
with
each
other
in
an
optimal way.
Power vs. Dominance
NVC-plus
is
for
people
who
like
to
live
their
positive
and
natural
power
without
wanting
to
live
it
out
in
the
form
of
dominance.
The
power
of
the
individual
is
turned
forward
and
intertwined
into
a
larger
team
force
to
become
interactively
effective
in
an
intelligent
way.
This
succeeds
with
NVC-plus.
On
the
other
hand,
those
who
prefer
to
do
their
own
thing
will
hardly
seek
a
central
place
in
a
self-organized
team
-
that
too
is
self-direction.
All
will
find
their
own
good
place
in
the
team
or
in
relation
to
the
team
if
they
can
enter
into
mediating
communication.
NVC-
plus
can
strengthen
their
understanding
of
this.
If
some
people
do
not
succeed
at
all,
some
basic
personal
insight
work
may
be
needed
first.
Coaching
and seminars can support them in this.
Questions
are
more
important
than
answers.
A
good
question
can
accompany
you
for
a
long
time
and
steer
your
steps
in
the
right
direction.
In
this
respect,
all
answers
are
not
intended
to
resolve
the
questions, but to inspire the questioners.
After
some
time,
we
will
be
able
to
expand
this
area
and
go
into
even
more
detail
and
specifics
about
problems
as
they
naturally
arise
in
organized
interaction.
So
that
we
can
keep
our
finger
on
the
pulse
with
our
answers,
please
write
to
us
with
your
technical questions.
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