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  What ist
   NVC-plus
  NVC-plus
  is
  the
  methodological
  core
  of
  "The
  team
  is
  the
  boss"
  and
  makes
  it
  easy
  for
  people
  to 
  come
  together
  in
  a
  productive
  synergy.
  With
  the
  help
  of
  this
  method,
  people
  work
  together
  as 
  equals
  and
  organize
  themselves
  into
  teams
  and
  sub-teams. 
  The
  special
  thing
  about
  NVC-plus
  is 
  that
  no
  new
  team
  or
  work
  structure
  is
  proposed.
  Instead,
  NVC-plus
  supports
  teams
  in
  finding
  a 
  suitable
  structure
  themselves.
  
  NVC-plus
  activates
  people's
  inner
  strengths
  and
  builds
  on
  the 
  natural
  principles
  of
  togetherness.
  That
  is
  why
  the
  application
  feels
  less
  technical
  and
  is
  more 
  about discovery than learning.
  The parameters of NVC-plus
        - self-managing teams 
        - organic cooperation 
        - life-serving communities 
        - encounters at eye level
  The roots of NVC-plus
  NVC-plus
  has
  a
  connection
  to
  classic
  non-violent
  communication
  (NVC)
  according
  to
  Dr. 
  Marshall
  Rosenberg.
  Rosenberg
  developed
  four
  steps
  with
  which
  people
  can
  establish
  a
  good 
  personal
  connection
  beyond
  all
  ideas,
  opinions
  and
  ideologies.
  This
  method
  is
  very
  effective
  in 
  personal
  disagreements
  and
  conflicts
  and
  has
  therefore
  spread
  worldwide.
  It
  is
  used
  in
  many 
  professional
  contexts.
  But
  what
  classic
  NVC
  lacked
  until
  now
  was
  a
  second
  process
  that
  could 
  be used to organize and optimize systems of joint cooperation "non-violently".
  The development of NVC-plus
  NVC-plus
  was
  developed
  in
  Germany
  by
  a
  communication
  developer
  (Gabriel
  Fritsch)
  in 
  collaboration 
  with
  three
  NVC
  trainers.
  It 
  was
  clear
  to
  them
  from
  the
  outset
  that
  in
  an
  increasingly 
  complex
  and
  at
  the
  same
  time
  increasingly
  open
  world,
  communities
  and
  teams
  increasingly 
  want
  to
  get
  by 
  without
  a
  real 
  "boss"
  and
  therefore
  need
  to
  manage
  themselves.
  
  But
  how? 
  Teams 
  need
  a
  simple
  method
  with
  which
  they
  can
  integrate
  and
  organize
  the
  different
  individual 
  potentials and aspirations - without losing sight of the goal of a project or a company.
  The components of NVC-plus
  The
  central
  element
  of
  NVC-plus
  is
  the
  four-step
  circle.
  It
  enables
  the
  process
  to
  succeed
  step 
  by
  step
  and
  sustainably
  in
  the
  team
  or
  group.
  There
  are
  also
  various
  tools
  and
  some
  additional 
  elements for self-management that can be incorporated as required.
  What for
   NVC-plus
  If
  you
  ask
  yourself
  what
  NVC-plus
  is
  actually
  good
  for,
  then
  there
  is
  an
  answer
  from
  the 
  individual
  perspective
  and
  an
  answer
  from
  the
  community
  perspective
  (partnership,
  team, 
  company, community).
  The why for the individual
  Every
  organized
  get-together
  has
  rules. 
  You
  should
  follow
  them,
  be
  nice
  and,
  above
  all,
  not
  be
  a 
  nuisance.
  From
  school,
  through
  military
  service
  and
  vocational
  training,
  to
  the
  workplace
  and 
  retirement
  home
  -
  everywhere
  you
  go,
  you
  are
  expected
  to
  play
  along
  functionally.
  This
  trains
  a 
  person
  in
  the
  art
  of
  obedience
  and
  adaptation.
  Our
  energy
  is
  used
  for
  projects
  that
  are
  not
  ours 
  and
  often
  even
  run
  counter
  to
  our
  interests. 
  The
  more
  conscious 
  we
  become,
  the
  less 
  we 
  want
  to 
  go along with this. 
  Human
  beings
  are
  a
  source
  of
  energy,
  awareness,
  sensitivity,
  inspiration,
  vitality,
  creativity
  and 
  spirituality.
  All
  of
  this
  can
  only
  flow
  into
  processes
  from
  the
  human
  side
  and
  from
  nowhere
  else. 
  Up
  to
  now,
  however,
  it
  has
  mainly
  been
  energy
  that
  has
  been
  accepted
  and
  purchased
  from
  this 
  source.
  This
  has
  an
  advantage
  for
  systems,
  because
  collaboration
  can
  be
  controlled
  from
  a 
  central
  location
  by
  specifying
  a
  program
  that
  is
  then
  only
  carried
  out
  by
  others.
  However,
  the 
  untapped
  potential
  of
  employees
  creates
  tensions,
  both
  in
  people
  and
  in
  systems.
  The
  time 
  seems
  to
  have
  come
  to
  live
  out
  one's
  own
  qualities
  and
  potential.
  
  However,
  if
  everyone
  only 
  acts
  individually
  and
  does
  not
  come
  together
  in
  their
  work,
  it
  will
  only
  become
  increasingly 
  lonely
  and
  chaotic.
  
  With
  NVC-plus,
  people
  can
  consciously
  intertwine
  their
  individual
  potentials 
  and use them optimally in a self-organized way within the framework of projects.
  The why for teams, companies and communities
  In
  conventional
  systems,
  all
  individuals
  are
  organized
  into
  collective
  structures. 
  This
  is
  referred
  to 
  as
  "the
  school
  class",
  "the
  army"
  or
  "the
  department".
  Conventions,
  rules
  and
  sanctions
  are
  the 
  glue
  that
  holds
  everything
  together.
  Guilt,
  shame,
  indignation
  and
  depression
  become
  part
  of 
  the
  system
  climate.
  The
  quality
  of
  communication,
  trust
  and
  transparency
  decline.
  Where
  have 
  all
  the
  lively
  and
  exciting
  people
  gone
  in
  this
  gray
  uniformity?
  Collectives
  are
  rarely
  more 
  intelligent
  than
  their
  smartest
  member
  and
  their
  momentum
  is
  difficult
  to
  control.
  The
  unused 
  potential
  of
  people
  acts
  as
  inertia,
  friction
  and
  resistance.
  Strange
  strategies
  and
  ideologies 
  emerge that do not do justice to people and do not promote humanity. 
  The
  NVC-plus
  process
  awakens
  and
  directs
  individual
  forces.
  Powerful
  networks
  replace 
  faceless
  collective
  structures.
  With
  NVC-plus,
  satisfied,
  interactively
  intelligent
  and
  self-directed 
  teams
  are
  formed.
  For
  the
  company,
  this
  means
  more
  creativity,
  commitment,
  performance
  and 
  sustainability in uncertain times.
  With whom NVC-plus 
  If
  some
  people
  are
  not
  able
  to
  do
  this,
  they
  may
  first
  need
  to
  do
  some
  fundamental
  personal 
  awareness
  work.
  Coaching
  and
  seminars
  can
  support
  them
  in
  this.NVC-plus
  is
  intended
  for
  all 
  people
  who
  want
  to
  organize
  themselves
  independently
  and
  on
  an
  equal
  footing
  with
  others.
  In 
  this
  respect,
  the
  method
  is
  kept
  as
  simple
  as
  possible. 
  You
  could
  say:
  anyone 
  who
  can
  learn
  how 
  to
  drive
  a
  car
  can
  also
  learn
  NVC-plus.
  The
  real
  challenge
  is
  to
  switch
  from
  the
  previous
  way
  of 
  working
  together
  to
  the
  NVC-plus
  mode.
  This
  requires
  flexibility,
  curiosity
  and
  trust.
  You
  have
  to 
  try
  out
  new
  things
  openly
  in
  order
  to
  be
  able
  to
  assess
  them
  realistically
  and
  apply
  them 
  effectively.
  This
  is
  not
  easy
  for
  everyone.
  NVC-plus
  offers
  an
  elegant
  change
  strategy
  for
  the 
  sensitive transition phase.
  Being a pioneer - who starts?
  There
  are
  people
  in
  a
  community
  or
  institution
  who
  find
  it
  easier
  to
  embrace
  change.
  They
  are 
  pioneers
  at
  heart.
  They
  like
  to
  break
  new
  ground.
  Others,
  on
  the
  other
  hand,
  have
  their
  backs
  to 
  the
  wall
  in
  their
  life
  situation
  and
  therefore
  choose
  change.
  They
  try
  out
  NVC-plus,
  for
  example, 
  to
  save
  a
  relationship
  or
  stabilize
  a
  project,
  a
  team
  or
  even
  an
  entire
  company.
  However,
  those 
  who
  are
  unhappy
  with
  the
  way
  they
  are
  working
  together
  and
  suspect
  at
  first
  contact
  that
  NVC-
  plus
  can
  provide
  real
  answers
  for
  them
  have
  the
  easiest
  time.
  These
  people
  have
  a
  hunger
  for
  a 
  good common ground. If they see an opportunity, they will go straight away.
  Change and awareness
  NVC-plus
  presents
  our
  consciousness
  with
  a
  challenge.
  Where
  we
  as
  humans
  are
  actually
  used 
  to
  relying
  on
  the
  visible,
  predictable
  and
  calculable,
  with
  NVC-plus
  we
  develop
  an
  interactive 
  sensitivity. 
  And
  in
  our
  highly
  functional
  culture, 
  which
  has
  evolved
  from
  a
  male-dominated 
  world, 
  thoughts
  are
  usually
  more
  familiar
  to
  us
  than
  feelings.
  Many
  know
  little
  about
  their
  inner
  life,
  their 
  needs
  and
  their
  real
  goals.
  For
  a
  self-directed
  mode,
  however,
  we
  need
  a
  good
  or
  at
  least 
  sufficient
  connection
  to
  ourselves
  and
  to
  the
  other
  team
  members.
  In
  the
  beginning,
  it's
  like 
  training
  muscles
  after
  the
  plaster
  cast
  has
  been
  removed.
  It
  takes
  some
  time
  for
  them
  to
  work 
  properly
  again
  and
  feel
  comfortable.
  You
  shouldn't
  let
  this
  irritate
  you.
  The
  "social
  muscles"
  are 
  present in us humans and with the first successes we easily get over the initial threshold.
  NVC-plus is not a form of self-awareness or therapy.
  NVC-plus
  is
  of
  course
  free
  of
  ideology
  and
  designed
  to
  help
  people
  organize
  their
  activities
  in
  an 
  easy
  and
  contemporary
  way.
  It
  is
  therefore
  not
  about
  self-optimization
  or
  simply
  getting
  rid
  of 
  problems
  or
  being
  passively
  happy
  together.
  There
  are
  certainly
  other
  methods
  for
  that.
  NVC-
  plus is for people who want to coordinate their activities optimally with each other.
  Power vs. dominance
  NVC-plus
  is
  for
  people
  who
  like
  to
  live
  their
  positive
  and
  natural
  power
  without
  wanting
  to
  live
  it 
  out
  in
  the
  form
  of
  dominance.
   
  The
  power
  of
  the
  individual
  is
  turned
  forward
  and
  intertwined
  into 
  a
  larger
  team
  force
  in
  order
  to
  become
  interactively
  and
  intelligently
  effective.
  This
  is
  achieved 
  with
  NVC-plus.
  On
  the
  other
  hand,
  those
  who
  prefer
  to
  do
  their
  own
  thing
  will
  hardly
  look
  for
  a 
  central
  place
  in
  a
  self-organized
  team
  -
  that
  is
  also
  self-management.
  Everyone
  will
  find
  their 
  own
  good
  place
  in
  the
  team
  or
  in
  relation
  to
  the
  team
  if
  they
  can
  engage
  in
  mediating 
  communication. NVC-plus can strengthen their understanding of this. 
  Starting with
   NVC-plus
  NVC-plus
  is
  best
  started
  in
  direct
  contact
  with
  two
  or
  three
  people
  or
  in
  a
  small,
  intimate
  circle. 
  You
  can
  start
  with
  your
  partner
  or
  family
  or
  find
  your
  own
  NVC-plus
  practice
  partner.
  It's
  easy
  to 
  learn
  the
  first
  steps,
  experience
  the
  benefits
  and
  get
  hooked.
  Together,
  you
  not
  only
  meet
  the 
  other
  person,
  but
  also 
  yourself.
  In
  the
  new
  NVC-plus
  mode,
  the
  togetherness
  is
  different
  and
  this 
  also
  changes
  your
  own
  self-image
  and
  sense
  of
  self.
  Next
  comes
  the
  second
  step:
  NVC-plus
  in 
  the
  team,
  in
  the
  company
  or
  in
  even
  larger
  contexts.
  The
  principle
  is
  always
  the
  same.
  Once
  you 
  have understood it, it is easy to do.
  The first steps
  There
  are
  many
  ways
  to
  get
  started
  with
  NVC-plus.
  You
  can
  view
  information
  material
  on
  the 
  website
  (www.NVC-plus.net),
  attend
  a
  video
  conference,
  attend
  an
  event
  or
  a
  training
  group
  or 
  get
  started
  with
  the
  NVC-plus
  book.
  If
  there
  is
  not
  yet
  a
  practice
  group
  in
  your
  area,
  you
  can
  set 
  one
  up.
  There
  you
  can
  exchange
  ideas
  with
  others
  and
  experiment
  together.
  In
  the
  NVC-plus 
  app
  and
  the
  online
  courses,
  you
  can
  find
  some
  introductory
  exercises.
  You
  can
  talk
  to
  the
  NVC-
  plus hotspots on the phone, get advice or invite them. 
  You
  start
  with
  a
  small
  project,
  an
  activity
  or
  a
  day
  that
  you
  would
  like
  to
  actively
  organize 
  together
  with
  NVC-plus.
  If
  that
  goes
  well,
  you
  start
  the
  next
  project.
  Soon
  the
  basics
  become 
  more
  familiar
  and
  NVC-plus
  takes
  up
  more
  and
  more
  space
  in
  your
  life.
  Together,
  you
  dare
  to 
  tackle
  tasks
  that
  previously
  seemed
  too
  difficult.
  Life
  is
  transformed.
  If
  difficulties
  arise
  from
  time 
  to
  time,
  you
  can
  get
  support.
  Often
  it's
  just
  down
  to
  little
  things
  that
  are
  easier
  to
  recognize
  from 
  the outside. 
  The start of NVC-plus in companies
  In
  companies
  and
  communities,
  a
  confidence-inspiring
  strategy
  is
  required
  for
  the
  introduction 
  of
  NVC-plus.
  As
  a
  start,
  it
  would
  be
  possible
  to
  invite
  an
  NVC-plus
  coach
  for
  a
  presentation
  or 
  workshop.
  Afterwards,
  the
  employees
  who
  spontaneously
  accept
  NVC-plus
  could
  try
  out
  NVC-
  plus
  in
  their
  private
  environment
  over
  the
  next
  few 
  weeks
  (see
  above). 
  The
  company
  can
  provide 
  them 
  with
  the
  advanced
  online
  course
  modules
  and
  perhaps
  also
  one
  or
  two
  coaching
  sessions. 
  This
  creates
  a
  win-win
  situation.
  The
  first
  steps
  are
  taken
  outside
  of
  working
  hours
  in
  a
  trusting 
  environment.
  This
  strengthens
  the
  employees
  and
  their
  private
  environment.
  For
  their
  part,
  they 
  bring their confidence and new skills to the work teams. 
  The
  next
  step
  is
  to
  start
  a
  smaller
  project
  with
  NVC-plus,
  using
  people
  who
  already
  have
  some 
  prior
  knowledge.
  
  The
  NVC-plus
  coach
  accompanies
  the
  first
  steps
  and
  continues
  to
  be 
  available
  as
  a
  contact
  person.
  In
  this
  way,
  more
  and
  more
  experience
  and
  expertise
  is 
  accumulated and the NVC-plus mode is gradually extended to the rest of the company.
 
 
  
 
 
  
 
 
  
 
 
  
 
 
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